No sense of direction

Why do people make their selves so busy til they do not remember some promises that they made to other folks. What is it that makes  a person want to run and hide in life- hide beyond things. I am still finding that people lie to get by in life. No sense of direction in their life. So they they can't make a clear decision in life. For women or men who is looking for love or a life partner make sure they have a sense of direction in life. If you don't know where you are going and your partner does not either, where are you heading, which path is he taken you down? You should know what you want out of life and have a plan to achieve it along the way. Life can be hard enough with no direction,then you get with someone and they don't have a sense of direction.
Another thing to keep in mind is if you walking in this life with God as your master then he will order your steps. When God does things it is the correct way, we can't go wrong.