Tuesday, May 3, 2016

You beening satisfied by your partner in bed?

Do you have a boring sex life? Are you happy  with your mate? What would you do differently to make your sex life ome alive.? I believe some church women can take a lesson in this area. Just because you live a life of Christ it does not mean you just give up on your sex life to your husband.. You keep those sheets hot as much as possible so you be o not leave a door open.

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Is your job stressing you Out?

We all know that in today's  world,we must work. If you are born into money then work can become an choice for you.But, most of American people must work.

Do you feel stress at work? Is there an overwhelming feeling of anxieties that come over you at times on the job? If this is you then you are probably  (stress out) or burned out for a different choice of words. I remember when I experienced burned out in my job of many years of Nursing. I recognized the signs that I was seeing in me. Today to many people confused the burned out or stress out with over working. There is a difference between the two.

If you do not look forward to going to work on anyday of the week and you just make excuses why you miss work, nine times out of ten you are experiencing burned out. If you go to your job and just think negative thoughts about your employment, and you can not find nothing good to say.You are burned out. By continuing to go to work under these conditions you will be stress out with everything and everyone. You just do not know why you are there any more.

Honestly start adking yourself some questions like, why am I unhappy in my job? Do I want this job anymore? I am sure you have heard the saying, don't cut off your nose sprit your face. What is it that is stressing me out? It is very important that you ask yourself these questions and others so you can pick up the pieces in your life and move on, plus get the help you need.

Make sure you give your full attention to understanding yourself and what you need to be happy in your job. Get control of the stress in your life before ut is too late. When you are stress it effects others around you and your family. So seek help from your employment, they can put in touch with the right people that can help. Your life is valuable and no job should ever get a person to the point of wanting to quite or walk off, but it does happen more often then we realized. My point is don't let stress take you of this world. Step back and refocus the plans out again.

Author's
Charlotte Martin
Point of view

Sunday, May 17, 2015

Suck you dry

Learn to put poison people out of your life if you want to be happy. We have got to learn the signs and symptoms of these people. They are negative thinker. If you are unsure just let them talk then you will see. They gossip about others.

It is something lacking in that person that they have to talk about others. Rather it be jealousy or this person just can not be happy for others, sometimes this person just have so much junk in their own life that the only way to feel good about themselves, is to talk about others 

It is better to be alone and happy then putting people down only to be a sad case yourself. These people drain you of your happiness if you let them .So just let them go.

Be free and happy

Sunday, February 8, 2015

No sense of direction

Why do people make their selves so busy til they do not remember some promises that they made to other folks. What is it that makes  a person want to run and hide in life- hide beyond things. I am still finding that people lie to get by in life. No sense of direction in their life. So they they can't make a clear decision in life. For women or men who is looking for love or a life partner make sure they have a sense of direction in life. If you don't know where you are going and your partner does not either, where are you heading, which path is he taken you down? You should know what you want out of life and have a plan to achieve it along the way. Life can be hard enough with no direction,then you get with someone and they don't have a sense of direction.
Another thing to keep in mind is if you walking in this life with God as your master then he will order your steps. When God does things it is the correct way, we can't go wrong.

Friday, October 10, 2014

Unhealthy Relationships

We all want a health relationship in our lives today. But if we be honest with what we see today, there are so many unhealthy relationships in the world today. If we turn on TV we have people making their relationship out to something that it is not. Unhealthy relationships can lead to many areas in our body. Which in turn out to hurt us from the stress in our life.

If you find yourself questioning yourself in a relationship, it is for a reason. No one should be in a relationship where there is fighting or arguements. There is a God that will guide you on the right path. He never want us to be unhappy and sad in a relationship. If we can pray and wait on God things would be different. You must have wisdom and wise counsel in your everyday life.

Be bless and choice the right battle to fight.

Saturday, July 5, 2014

Is your man your stress?

Does he stress you out more then normal you think? Does the things he do upset you over and over? Is it taking a lot out of you when he stress you out? We all know that stress in our lives is not good.So if you know what or who is not stressing you out get far away from it.Your health is vital in these last days.Stress can land you into the hospital and you can lists weight and hair beyond stress.Ask yourself what is It important in your life and then make a decision.To me anything that is not adding to your life is taking fRom your life.Some of us is asking ourselves is it my mate that is stressing me out? It could be because of the way you and him came together in your relationship.There are some if us that know it Is the job, but to scared to believe you will make it if you leave that job.Yes, a pay Cut is what you are looking on but the amount of stress will be gone. We see in the news how people are taking their own lives because of stress. We do not want to be stress out so make good choices and plans for yourself.

Monday, December 9, 2013

Did you ever really love me?

I thought i found the most important man in my life when i found you.
We plan on making it through the storms. A life together. At least this what i thought going by our actions. And conversations .
I believe in you to the fullest. I trusted you with my life, to bad
Things happen to change our directions.I know now some are meant for a reason and some for a season. 
You were a season in my life.